People who are familiar with online dating must have heard about Plenty of Fish (POF). According to Kevin Hallow, who writes an online dating book entitled “Online Dating Wingman”, men should follow some simple guides in order to gain messages from attractive women. In some cases, Kevin believes that men should follow the guidance whenever they want to ask when to meet the woman they have been messaging on POF.
One Two Three Steps to Meet a Woman
Engaging in conversation with women on POF is not easy. There are many men who actually need to struggle before they are able to have a conversation. The fact is that many women who are actually love sending messages back and forth.
However, these women are actually a bit worry about meeting up with men. They are nervous and they sometimes end up not meeting the men they are messaging. For women, POF is a safe environment since they can easily blog and even ignore whoever they want. First of all, meeting someone for women is a huge step, so you need to make them comfortable before you meet them. Second of all, you need to be aware there are many women have no intentions of meeting up. However, they are happy to be able to chat and share with the men. They also like to get their attention and it makes them feel good as well.
Therefore, you do not need to think of why they do not want to meet you. All you need to do is to remain positive and you can start over. The next thing that you can do is to build your rapport. Many men think that they can meet the women they want through POF easily. In fact, if you are not handsome, rich, and have a great body, it is hard for you to find women that you like. Little that we know the one that makes up our conversation is our body language that can reach to 93%. Therefore, it is more challenging to engage with women through online dating since it only uses 7% from the rest of conversation that we usually have. But, there is no need for you to be worry. You should at least follow these steps:
- Try not to be pushy; if you push them, you will lose your chance to meet them.
- You need to choose your moment carefully. If you are able to make them smile and at you can have two conversations with them then you probably get more opportunity.
- Try to avoid using the word “date” since this word is burdensome. Instead of calling it a date you can call it a “meet up”.
- Find the best pick up line like, “perhaps we can meet up and if we like each other, we can arrange for a date in a future.”
- When meeting for the first time, you better bring her to a coffee shop. Keep it simple and do not spend too much money.
- Do not bring any gift since it can make her feel under pressure.
There have been many men who fail at online dating. If you want to be successful, do not over react and be calm.